don't.....

i wanna start dis blog entry by thanking Allah for all His blessings.....thank u Allah for calling me, to be ur guest in ur holy land...thank u so much...terima kasih Ya Allah....

alamakk...td dlm keta, idea mencurah2 nk blog, now, im speechless! huhuuu...type je la eh...

there many kind of ppl in dis world...everyone is uniqe...no one is the same...no one in dis world is the same......so, whut do u do when people tell u their problems and ask for ur word of advice?

never ever think that we are the same.....the way u evaluate other people's problem is not the same with what they r feeling rite now...

sometimes, the others might nt be as strong as us....they might not react the same way we expect them to react when they r in a mess....stop saying "imagine im in his or her shoe"...because, u can only imagine, u can never ever feel what they r feeling... u can only give them words of advice, words of comfort, believe me, those words help a lot..but, most probably, it only lasts for a day...

so, when people still in a mess, after many many years...after tonnes of words of comfort u've given them, stop saying words dat might hurt them..for example "kau ni pesal tak bleh nk berubah" ..because, they r not u, and u r not them....they r the ones who are suffering....u r the one who is watching.... maybe, the problem dat they r facing might be similar to the problem dat u faced years ago...or maybe, u had faced a bigger and much worse problems than the one he is facing, but, dont expect them to be able to recover, to be able to face that problems the way u did...no, it wont happen...people are unique....we might think they r strong....and, we might wonder how on earth did dis person end up being like dis, simply because of a small glitch in his life......the answer is, we dont know...and, how people react towards their problems are not the same with us.....

stop saying words dat hurt them......believe me, they dont choose to be like dat...if only, life is juz like microsoft windows....just right click the icon and choose one of the available options........im sure, if life is like dat, none wud be stucked in a mess....

running away does not solve anything....but, sometimes, running away is the only thing to do...dats the only best option available...sometimes, we gave our best level to face a problem...we put in almost 200% of effort to fight....but sumtimes, dat 200%, that best level is not enuff, and we became extremely exhausted...exhausted because no matter how hard we fight, it is still like dat.....and the longer we stay, it makes everything seems to be more unbearable..so, leave....run away from it, is the best option..

so, dont ever judge people.....never ever say " i was in dis mess before too, but im okay now....so, y cant u do the same like i did?".....dont say that, because, u are u, and u will never ever be like someone else...

thank u so much to izan.... she inspired me to write dis entry.......sarah doakan yg terbaik utk izan..